Number 26 out of 28: This piece is part a Blog Challenge to write and publish a post, every day of the 28 days of February 2015, from Coach and Writer Sandra Peachey – the author of ‘Peachey Letters – Love Letters to Life’.
As a Coach and an admirer of Cats, I realised some time ago that these two things need not necessarily be mutually exclusive; in fact they could cogently combine, and so I find, that I am constantly developing my philosophies of and musings on, ‘Coaching with Cats’.
As a qualified Occupational Tester, one of the tools I use most often is a psychometric inventory based on the DISC personality assessment system. The letters stand for what are regarded as the four main personality traits – Dominance, Influence, Steadiness, and Compliance. I am now gently developing this in to DISCC – ‘DISC for Cats’, since, as well as personality assessment, I also have extensive experience in the field of cat guardianship (not ownership – you never own a cat) and so I shall be combining the personality and the puss.
The trait that my cats and myself shall be scrutinizing today is the ‘S’ of the DISC model, which stands for Steadiness. And my assistant in this task today is the living, loving teddy bear that is my cat Taz.
Taz is not always the most obvious of creatures, (apart from at meal times), and rarely is he bothering and badgering me for attention. A sweet but solitary creature, he often likes to hide out at the top of the stairs, squeeze into dark corners or park himself behind curtains – under desks or any where that offers him a good view and a secret blanket of safety.
He reminds me of a small Leopard, one of those graceful and powerful big cats closely related to lions, tigers, and jaguars. His wild cousins have territories spread across the vast reaches of Africa and Asia, and have been known to humans throughout long millennia, being featured in the art, mythology, and folklore of many places, from Arabia to Britain and far beyond.
Leopards are in nature elusive, solitary and largely nocturnal, of which aspects Taz quietly draws upon. The key thing about personalities that belong to this type is their rhythmic pace and steadiness, and as such they can offer a calm predictability. They are very grounded in the present, but are also great at meeting dedicated deadlines ahead of time. Hence Taz will linger around for food, insinuating him self into my presence often two or three hours ahead of the pre-prescribed time.
Taz is definitely a lover rather than a fighter, preferring to do things the peaceful way – yet if the occasion calls for it, he will see off intruder cats from the garden, simply by staring them out. It is a magnificent thing to observe – seeing him in his silent, steady power.
For all his independence and secrecy, Taz is too, very loving and steadily affectionate. He is naturally friendly with everyone, but like all ‘S’ types, will take some time to get to know you before he loves you. And since he is a true creature of habit, he likes to demonstrate his love, for me, with regularity, at round about 10.00 pm each night, when I will be sought out, then head butted, paw pounded and purred at.
It is always a two way scenario with this little Leopard and so I must, of course love him back…
Taz is one of the quietest cats I know, but when he has something to communicate, he draws on rich variety of methods. Leopards too produce a number of vocalizations, including grunts, roars, growls, meows, and purrs. My favourite Taz talk is his ‘thrup’ or what is known in the wild cat world as ‘prusten’ – a blown breathy nostril snort also made by tigers and snow leopards, as a sound of happy recognition.
Since they are such good communicators and excellent listeners – S’s tend to be great problem solvers too and will often reach their conclusions through group consensus. Hence more and more Taz is to be found hanging out with all members of The Pride – especially during his patterned and favourite time of evening.
Taz rarely pushes or forces and loves to be quietly adorable and agreeable, even under pressure. And unless it is a matter of food or safety, he would rather I called the shots and made all the decisions. This means that he can then just quietly takes his purring place in The Pride…
Taz is truly my own little Leopard. He is a sweet hearted and gentle panther of a fluffy black cat, and a beautiful constant, quietly making his presence felt in my life and in the circle of The Peachey Pride.
PS: Today thanks go to the Wikipedia and National Geographic websites for their excellent information on Leopards.
PPS: A collection of my ‘Peachey Letters’ have been gathered together in to a book. I’m completely biased of course, but it makes a ‘purrfect’ present, whether you be a cat lover or no. All of human life is in this gorgeous book – all the fear, light, dark, and of course love, for any one who wants to be entertained and to know that they are not alone in life, what ever it holds for you, even if it isn’t all about cats… You can buy ‘Peachey Letters – Love Letters to Life’ from book websites any where in the world, including Amazon (in both Paperback and Kindle)…